For so long I have been chained by what other people have thought I ought to be or ought to do. How wrong that thinking is.
I only ever have had to be, what God has wanted me to be, and what He has wanted for me.
All I have to be is right with God.
Proverbs 3:5
Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and lean not to your own understanding (and dare I say that of other peoples too).